6 Red Flags to Avoid in Relationships and How to Spot Them Early
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Feb 10, 2023
In this discussion, various red flags in relationships are examined, ranging from premature declarations of love to the pressure for physical intimacy. The dangers of gaslighting and how it can distort reality are emphasized. It also touches on individuals who encourage partners to abandon their passions, a crucial warning sign of control. The impact of discussing ex-partners and the warning signs associated with it is explored. Awareness of these issues can lead to healthier relationship choices.
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Responding to Premature "I Love You"
If someone says "I love you" too soon, don't feel pressured to reciprocate.
Ask them what they mean by "love" to understand their perspective and prompt reflection.
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Oxytocin's Impact on Love
Sex can distort our perception of love due to the hormone oxytocin.
Oxytocin amplifies feelings and blocks negative memories, leading to bad judgment.
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Love Bombing Signs
Beware of premature discussions about moving in, marriage, or kids.
These can be signs of love bombing, especially during times of personal stress.
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Today, I am going to share with you relationship red flags. There are warning signs that indicate potential problems in a romantic relationship. These can be behaviors or attitudes that are harmful or incompatible with a healthy relationship. It's important to be able to spot these red flags early on in a relationship so that you can make an informed decision about whether to continue the relationship. Pay attention to your gut feelings and listen to any concerns that your friends or family may have. Trust your instincts and if you notice multiple red flags, it may be time to reassess the relationship and consider whether it is a healthy and positive situation for you.
Key Takeaways:
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:09 Avoiding relationship red flags
00:09:09 Red Flag #1: Saying “I love you” too soon
00:12:46 Red Flag #2: Pressure to have s*x
00:15:52 Red Flag #3: Talking about moving in and starting a family
00:20:18 Red Flag #4: Gaslighting
00:21:34 Red Flag #5: Encouraging you to give up your passion
00:25:08 Red Flag #6: Talks about their ex-partner
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