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Loving BDSM Q&A: What Can I Wear Instead of My Collar?
Nov 17, 2025
A collared submissive in the medical field seeks alternatives to her collar for work. The hosts dive into creative options like day collars and subtle jewelry that blend with professional attire. They discuss the importance of workplace safety and offer ideas for discreet items like bracelets or lanyards. Users are encouraged to choose materials that can be sanitized easily. Tips on carrying tactile tokens for comfort during stressful days also make a highlight, promoting the balance between professionalism and personal identity.
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Check Work Rules First
- Check your workplace dress code and safety rules before choosing a substitute for your collar.
- Confirm whether necklaces, metals, dangling items, or certain materials are allowed in your medical setting.
Barista's Lace Choker Sparked Thought
- Kayla recalled seeing a barista wearing a lace choker and wondering whether it had meaning.
- The example prompted thinking about subtle collars that don't read overtly as BDSM jewelry.
Use Allowed Jewelry As Substitutes
- Use permitted jewelry alternatives like bracelets, rings, or anklets if neckwear is banned.
- Pick items your Dom approves so they can serve as a meaningful 'work collar.'