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8 DAYS OF DATING OPTIMISM: Just Say Yes (Day #2)

Dec 16, 2025
Exploring the power of a 'just say yes' mentality, Cheryl shares how this shift transformed her dating life. She recounts delightful encounters, including meeting her now-husband at a Halloween bar. The discussion covers navigating doubts, embracing spontaneity, and finding clarity in intentions. Cheryl reflects on the lessons learned from dating different people, including the importance of balance between openness and boundaries. Practical tips encourage daters to flip excuses into opportunities and enhance approachability in connecting with others.
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ANECDOTE

Yes Month Led To Unexpected Matches

  • Cheryl went on nonstop dates for about a month after deciding to say yes to opportunities she would normally decline.
  • That period led her to meet her future husband on Halloween after meeting many unexpected people.
ANECDOTE

Costume Mishap Turned Into Relationship

  • On Halloween Cheryl met a man dressed as a Chilean miner who rescued her during a costume mishap and later pursued her.
  • Despite initial doubts about his height and visa, she said yes and they built a long-term relationship.
ADVICE

Use Open Body Language

  • Turn toward people, smile, and adopt open body language to look approachable and invite conversations.
  • Practice mirroring and full-body orientation to create warmth and encourage others to engage.
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