This podcast explores the concept of fresh starts and the balance between impulsiveness and procrastination for individuals with ADHD. It discusses creating accountability and motivation, setting effective goals and planning, and embracing fresh starts. The episode offers tips on creating reminders and a plan, pacing oneself, and scheduling check-ins for sustainable changes.
The fresh start effect allows us to embrace a new self by letting go of past performance.
Effective goal setting involves creating a clear plan, prioritizing goals, and starting with small, sustainable changes.
Deep dives
Taking a Fresh Start
The episode explores the concept of the fresh start effect, which is the idea of disassociating oneself from past performance and creating a new era for oneself. It discusses how the fresh start effect can be seen in New Year's resolutions and the desire to make changes on significant dates like birthdays. However, it cautions against the dangers of procrastination and impulsivity that can come with the fresh start effect. It emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between the two and suggests reestablishing beneficial habits and routines as a form of a fresh start rather than striving for a complete reinvention.
Effective Goal Setting and Planning
The episode highlights the importance of effective goal setting and planning when pursuing change. It acknowledges that many people struggle with planning and goal setting, often setting too many goals without proper prioritization. It emphasizes the need for a clear plan and flexible approach, including lowering barriers to success, creating visual reminders, and scheduling regular check-ins to adapt and make necessary changes. It also encourages starting with small, sustainable changes rather than attempting to change everything at once.
Building Flexibility and Sustaining Change
The episode emphasizes the need for flexibility in planning and the ability to adapt when faced with challenges. It suggests incorporating flexibility by setting realistic goals, scheduling regular check-ins to reassess and make changes, and focusing on sustainable changes rather than overnight transformations. It reminds listeners to celebrate progress and acknowledge how far they've come, rather than getting discouraged by initial slow progress. The episode encourages listeners to embrace small changes that can be sustained in the long run.
In just one more month we're going to be coming up on the halfway point of 2021 — I know, I have no idea how it got here either.
But with this mark in time we're starting to see a shift going on - while COVID certainly isn't a thing of the past, the vaccine role out has opened up a lot of possibilities for what we want our future to look like.
At the end of 2020, I did some planning for 2021, but I knew that a lot of it was going to be uncertain so I didn't make too many specific plans. But now that I'm getting a better grasp of what the future might hold — although let's be honest, with ADHD we're always going to have a lot of uncertainty — I felt like it was time to go over those plans again and maybe give myself a fresh start.
In this episode, we're going to be talking about the fresh start effect, go over some stuff on planning, and how we can work on sticking to those plans. Support me on Patreon Feel free to ask me a question on my Contact Page Find the full show note at HackingYourADHD.com/76This Episode's Top Tips
Fresh starts can help us let go of our past performance and embrace our new self.
We can effectively create motivation with financial incentives, but often that isn't enough for us to follow through on some of the things that we really do want to do. We also need to create reminders and a plan on how we want to accomplish our goals.
Don't try and do all the new things at once - pace yourself and create a plan on what you want to do first. Try and focus on doing the things that by doing them will make everything else easier.
We need to be flexible with our plans because we are going to hit speed bumps - while we can't plan for everything we can work on ways to help us get back up when we get knocked down.
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