How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

Failure Throwback: Bear Grylls

Dec 31, 2025
Bear Grylls, an adventurer and former SAS soldier, opens up about the struggles behind his success. He discusses living with nerves and self-doubt despite public victories, sharing how vulnerability fosters connection. Bear reflects on his life's challenges, including breaking his back and the impact of losing his father, and emphasizes building resilience through adversity. He reframes failures as crucial learning moments, illustrating that true bravery lies in facing fears head-on and that giving up is the only real failure.
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ADVICE

Treat Nerves As A Useful Signal

  • Accept nerves and treat them like a friend rather than running from them.
  • Use nervous energy to stay on the edge and keep practising difficult things, Bear Grylls recommends.
INSIGHT

Public Persona vs Private Fear

  • Public success can inflate a persona while private doubts remain unchanged.
  • Bear Grylls says nerves grew as the public 'balloon' expanded even though he stayed the same person.
INSIGHT

Summits Are Only Half The Story

  • The summit is often the most dangerous moment because focus falls away on the descent.
  • Grylls uses mountaineering to show character emerges in the valleys after triumphs, not on summits.
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