458: The Myth of “Having It All” + The Playbook to Thriving as a CEO/Mama

Apr 10, 2025

Is the pursuit of "having it all" holding you back? Discover how to redefine success and thrive as a CEO while being a mother. Embrace self-care and support systems that empower you. Learn to prioritize your energy and let go of guilt to foster real ambition. Gain insights on when to seek help and how to align your schedule with your true values. This refreshing perspective offers practical strategies for anyone feeling stretched thin in their quest for balance.

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INSIGHT

Myth of "Having It All"

The myth of "having it all" can create unrealistic expectations and pressure for ambitious women and moms.
Defining whether you truly want "it all" and understanding the costs involved is crucial for thriving authentically.

ANECDOTE

Momhood Ends People-Pleasing

Becoming a mom ended Natalie's people-pleasing era due to lack of capacity and shifted priorities.
This led to relationship changes and comfort with being misunderstood or disappointing others if she stays true to herself.

ADVICE

Avoid Martyrdom by Self-Care

Avoid martyrdom by prioritizing your own self-care and regulating your energy.
Take accountability for patterns of self-sacrifice to better sustain relationships and personal well-being.

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We’ve all heard the phrase “you can have it all” — but is it actually serving us?

In this episode, Natalie challenges the myth of having it all and shares what it really looks like to thrive as a CEO and a mother — without burning out, running on empty, or constantly questioning if you're doing enough.

Whether you’re a parent or simply juggling a lot, you’ll walk away with a powerful reframe on success, a clear strategy for setting aligned priorities, and practical tools for protecting your time, energy, and well-being.

If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, this is the mindset shift you’ve been needing.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Why the idea of “having it all” is keeping high-achieving women stuck

01:26 - The real question: Do you even want it all — and at what cost?

04:06 - How becoming a mom ended Natalie’s people-pleasing era (and why that changed everything)

06:55 - Recognizing the martyr pattern — and how to break free from it

10:13 - The truth behind thriving women: It starts with support systems

16:08 - Redefining “mom guilt” and how to shift into empowered ambition

18:17 - The 3-question framework to define your version of success

22:48 - The exact things Natalie let go of to reach her biggest goals

25:38 - How to prioritize like a CEO and protect your energy

28:17 - When to outsource, automate, or ask for help (and why it matters)

31:04 - Build a schedule that reflects your actual values — not just what looks impressive

34:49 - A challenge: What’s one thing you can release to make space for what matters?

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