Do you really know? What are the secrets to a long lasting relationship?
Jun 28, 2025
Explore the intriguing shift in relationship lengths, highlighting that the average now stands at just two years and nine months. Discover findings from recent research uncovering the secrets to lasting bonds, including the importance of effective communication. Learn about the physical signs that signify affection and what factors might indicate a relationship is at risk of ending. Dive into the dynamics that can help partners navigate their connection and avoid common pitfalls.
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Modern Relationship Duration Insights
- The "seven year itch" is outdated; the average relationship lasts 2 years and 9 months.
- Researchers like John Gottman link lasting relationships to fondness, positivity, and "we-ness."
Gottman's Love Lab Success Story
- John Gottman's "Love Lab" predicted breakup success with 94% accuracy.
- His research identified key qualities like fondness and positivity that sustain marriages.
Affection and Admiration Sustain Love
- Long-term love often persists without recent sexual activity but with frequent affection.
- Admiration and positive views of a partner intensify love and strengthen bonds.