I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!

May 26, 2025

This engaging discussion emphasizes the transformative power of self-love and intimacy through self-pleasure. It highlights the importance of women exploring their bodies, with techniques to enhance confidence and sexual experiences. Manifesting desires shifts into embracing a magnetic energy, inviting fulfilling experiences. The conversation also touches on understanding sexual identity and the significance of self-acceptance. Ultimately, it champions the idea that self-pleasure can be a path to emotional fulfillment and empowerment.

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ADVICE

Five Tools for Self-Love Mastery

Use self-reconnaissance to intimately know every part of your vulva and vagina.
Practice yoni gazing, vaginal strengthening with jade eggs, surrender, and active self-pleasuring for deep self-love and orgasm mastery.

ANECDOTE

Jessica’s Self-Love Awakening

Jessica shares how stripping back clitoral stimulation and gadgets led to discovering deep vaginal orgasms solo.
She experienced a powerful self-love awakening through yoni gazing and self-touch that transformed her sexual relationship with herself.

INSIGHT

Vaginal Orgasms as Catharsis

Deep vaginal orgasms offer a cathartic release of long-held emotional and energetic blockages unrelated to specific memories.
They can act as an innate healing modality, mixing pleasure with emotional and psychological detoxification.

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“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!”

“I daydream all day about fucking…myself!”

“I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!”

“I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!”

I LOVE THIS so much.

One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other. And themselves.

When they describe this smouldering fire of self-love and desire, they use the same kind of language and energy as if they were talking about the relationship with their lover:

Especially from women—men seem to have an easier time and much more permission to develop a sexual relationship—read: wanking—with themselves.

Many women have never put their fingers in their own vaginas.

Many women think that self-pleasuring is boring and just “not for them”.

Many women have no idea of the geography of their own anatomy, or what turns them on.

Know thyself. The keys to the queendom are found… in your vagina.

In this episode:

The ultimate “love yourself first before you can find a parter”: loving and knowing your vagina
5 tools for mastering self-love and orgasms
Doing Anami work alone
Raising your frequency to attract a higher caliber partner in your next relationship
The catharsis of vaginal orgasms: forget therapy and go f**k yourself instead
Working hard at manifesting and achieving vs. getting well-f**ked and being magnetic instead
The life-changing benefits of f**king the shit out of yourself

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Increasing your feminine magnetism and charisma
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Self-pleasuring 101
How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals
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Taoist techniques to convert sexual energy into creative energy
How to use your sexual energy to heal yourself and your body
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