Good Inside with Dr. Becky You're Not The Boss of Me!
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Jun 6, 2023 This conversation redefines defiance in children, emphasizing that they're still good kids needing love and boundaries. Strategies for reconnecting with kids are explored, alongside the importance of positive communication. Parenting imperfections are celebrated, encouraging self-reflection and community connection. The complexities of gentle parenting are discussed, especially when dealing with a child's defiance. Engaging activities like the 'You're in Charge Game' empower kids and foster empathy, making parenting a collaborative journey.
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Defiant Son
- A mother describes her 4-year-old son's defiant behavior, including saying he wants to annoy her.
- She seeks advice on how to improve their relationship and manage these situations.
Misinterpreting Defiance
- Children's words like "I want to upset you" shouldn't be taken literally.
- They often reflect deeper emotional needs, not sociopathic tendencies.
Examples of Defiance
- The mother shares two examples: her son wanting to annoy his grandparents and repeatedly ringing the doorbell.
- She contrasts this with her own childhood obedience and expresses concern about their relationship.