102. Not for Resentment + How to Believe You Deserve Affection
Dec 19, 2024
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The hosts dive into a playful discussion about owls and mispronounced words, leading to humorous moments about intimacy. They explore the art of initiating sex in relationships, highlighting the importance of affection and communication. A lively debate on gender roles in partnerships reveals how modern couples redefine their dynamics. Amidst thoughtful reflections on resentment and personal boundaries, they end with lighthearted banter about quirky holiday traditions and resolutions, circling back to owls—this time en français!
The hosts explore the whimsicality of newfound awareness regarding owls, emphasizing how everyday observations can invite playful discussions about their significance.
They discuss the impact of language on self-awareness and humor, sharing anecdotes about mispronunciations that spark deeper reflections on communication dynamics.
The episode delves into relationship dynamics, advocating for open dialogues to balance contributions and prevent feelings of inadequacy and resentment between partners.
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Observations on Owls
Walking through a month of heightened owl sightings, the hosts reflect on how they have become acutely aware of owls since their previous discussion. They emphasize that owls can be found everywhere if one simply pays attention, and this newfound awareness has sparked playful debates about how many owls denote a concerning amount. They share humorous anecdotes involving owl-themed occurrences and elaborate on their evolving definitions of an 'owl alert' count. The conversation highlights the whimsicality of life’s little observations and the meanings people assign to such experiences.
Pronunciation and Language Quirks
The hosts delve into the idiosyncrasies of language, focusing on how the pronunciation of certain words can change based on regional accents and influences. They specifically criticize the way influencers might alter the pronunciation of everyday words, which they find amusing and frustrating. A conversation about personal experiences with mispronunciations leads to a humorous recounting of a reading session that resulted in repeated mispronunciations of the word 'ejaculating.' This reflects a broader theme of how language can create moments of self-awareness and comedic relief.
Exploring Relationship Dynamics
The discussion shifts toward relationship dynamics, particularly focusing on the balance of giving and receiving in partnerships. The hosts reflect on their tendencies to analyze their contributions to their relationships and how this often generates feelings of inadequacy or guilt. They emphasize the importance of communication to ensure that partners feel appreciated and to avoid the pitfalls of resentment that often arise from unbalanced contributions. By highlighting the significance of emotional expression, they advocate for open dialogues that strengthen the bonds between partners.
Setting Intentions for the New Year
With the New Year approaching, the hosts share thoughts on personal resolutions and the intentions they wish to set. One opting for 'bolder' as a yearly mantra to foster authenticity and courage, while the other considers more tangible goals related to career ambitions. They discuss the importance of self-reflection throughout the year, paralleling their growth with the concept of a beginner’s mind—encouraging an open-minded approach to future challenges. Ultimately, they agree that resolutions can serve as a motivational tool for continuous self-discovery instead of rigid guidelines.
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It’s the last episode of the year, and Jess and Caroline are feeling kooky. After circling back on owls, they discuss what’s wrong with influencers, a pronunciation mishap in a sexual situation, and what it might be like if C and J were sexual partners.This leads to a deeper conversation about initiating sex in a long-term partnership, accepting different ways partners show affection, and how feeling undeserving can get in the way of true appreciation. Plus, they deliberate masculine vs feminine energy, labor languages, and some feelings about resentment. Listen to the end for some New Year’s resolutions where they somehow circle back, again, to owls — but this time, in French.
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This episode was produced by our prince, Abi Newhouse.
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