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Oct 31, 2023 Guest 殊寒, an intern psychologist, discusses the polluted nature of love in patriarchal societies. They explore the concept of natural and healthy love, providing self-love for those who were wounded, and using the mirror principle to address intergenerational relationships.
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Patriarchy Pollutes Concept of Love
- In patriarchal societies, the concept of love is deeply polluted by power dynamics.
- Authority uses "love" to justify selfishness, violence, and control over women and children.
Parental Love Mixed with Harm
- Parental love mixed with harm is like "rice mixed with glass shards."
- It feeds children yet wounds them emotionally and psychologically deep down.
Use Mirror Principle in Healing
- Use the "mirror principle" to navigate generational trauma in family relationships.
- This helps children raised in patriarchal families to provide themselves with natural, healthy love.