Conversations with a Dom

E12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit

Feb 9, 2022
Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk, a BDSM expert, answers Reddit questions on prostate massage, sub to Dom transition, and funishments. Topics include exploring dominance dynamics, prostate orgasms, and bringing out the dominant side in a partner. Learn tips on crafting BDSM scenarios and navigating power dynamics in relationships.
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ADVICE

Maintain Sub Role While Topping

  • You can maintain your submissive role while topping by controlling the energy and context, not just actions.
  • Use submissive behavior, language, and attitude even when initiating activity to keep the dynamic intact.
ADVICE

Clarify BDSM Punishments

  • Always clarify with your partner what "punishments" mean to them in your dynamic.
  • Create personalized and agreed-upon punishments lists to keep the experience fun and consensual.
ADVICE

Help Your Dom Be More Dominant

  • Submissives can support dominants by offering positive feedback and creating power dynamics through posture and language.
  • Plan scenes ahead with agreed scenarios to help dominants get comfortable being rough and dominant in person.
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