Connect2 Counselling Feature: How do we Reconcile our Differences in Marriage?
Oct 16, 2024
Madelin Tay, a counsellor from Focus on the Family Singapore, dives into the complexities of navigating marital differences. She emphasizes that all couples have good intentions, but expressions can differ, making it crucial to find common ground. The discussion highlights how embracing these differences can lead to personal growth and strengthen relationships. Madelin shares practical strategies for improving communication, such as taking 'timeouts' during conflicts, showcasing that understanding and compromise are key to overcoming misunderstandings.
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Good Intent, Different Expressions
- Couples have good intentions but express them differently, often leading to misunderstandings.
- Recognizing alignment rather than opposition helps couples find common ground and strengthen relationships.
Inevitable Differences in Couples
- Differences in couples are inevitable and present in almost every relationship.
- These differences can be opposites or varying degrees of traits, both affecting marital dynamics.
Differences Foster Growth
- Marriage brings partners new perspectives challenging one's familiar worldview.
- Differences offer opportunities for personal and relational growth if viewed through a bigger lens.