Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast 9: How to Find Love After Betrayal and Avoid Drama!
Mar 14, 2022
44:56
How Rachel Went from Betrayal to Love - and got out of the "Drama Triangle!"
This week's episode is an amazing chat with serial entrepreneur Rachel Graham, about finding love & purpose after betrayal. Rachel is the founder of Evolve and Transform, co-founder of Healing Springs Ranch, and has a beautiful love story that came after lots of bumps & bruises along the way. She's so relatable, you'll want to listen to every word. She will help you to see that we ALL have a role in betrayal, and how to step out of the 'drama triangle.' Here are just a few gems that you will here in this episode:
*The darkest moment where Rachel found her purpose, while her house was flooding
*What HER contribution was (in her own words) to the betrayal she experienced.
*How she broke free of the victim mentality, and how we can ALL do that.
*How to find the 'meaning' in any mess that's presented to you
*How you can be the 'lotus flower in the muck'
*Why you can't go around the pain
*Why her boyfriend told her she's like Rapunzel (and you'll ALL relate to this)
*How to live your life through 'scars' and not 'open wounds.'
*Why most relationships have a shelf life (and what to do at that point)
*Her definition of rejection -- it's protection and redirection
*How she found love and is SO happy now (YAY)!!
*The Drama Triangle vs. The Empowerment Dynamic" - and how to switch from drama to empowerment
To see photos of Rachel and her "Fly Guy" and the "Drama vs. Empowerment Triangles" as we promised in the episode, click here!!
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