The School of Greatness 5 Lessons to Become Magnetic — Stop Chasing and Start Attracting [Lewis Howes SOLO]
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Oct 8, 2025 Discover how to cultivate magnetic relationships by not making partners your entire world. Learn the importance of aligning your values over shared interests for lasting connections. Delve into healing childhood wounds that influence chasing behavior. Understand that love is a daily choice, emphasizing consistency over mere chemistry. Embrace the idea that true magnetism comes from self-worth and personal integrity. Get actionable steps to attract healthy love and transform old patterns into a fulfilling relationship.
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Build A Full Life First
- Do not make your partner your entire world; build a full life with friends, hobbies, purpose, and invite them into it.
- Dedicate weekly time to five activities that give your life meaning outside the relationship.
Prioritize Values Over Hobbies
- Write down your top five non-negotiable values and ask value-revealing questions when dating, not just hobby questions.
- Prioritize actions over words to test whether someone's values actually align with yours.
Attraction Can Be A Wound Trigger
- Desire can mask wounded patterns; attraction often targets familiar pain rather than healthy safety.
- Healing childhood wounds makes you more magnetic to healthy, aligned partners.
