Episode 205: One Woman’s Polyamorous Journey

Interest in polyamory is on the rise. Google searches for it have been increasing for years, it’s increasingly being discussed in the popular media, and some municipalities are starting to offer legal recognition of polyamorous relationships. So what is it actually like to be polyamorous? My guest today is going to share her own personal poly journey. We’re going to discuss the benefits and challenges of multi-partner relationships, when the right time is to open up a monogamous relationship, and so much more.

I am joined by Leanne Yau, also known as Poly Philia. She is a polyamory educator and sex-positive social media influencer, creating and curating humorous and educational memes, tips, videos, and other bite-size content on non-monogamy, queer relationships, and sex positivity. She was named #1 in Cosmopolitan’s “10 Polyamory Experts to Follow on TikTok.” She is currently in training to become a polyamory-friendly therapist.

Some of the topics we discuss include:

• How is age related to interest in polyamory?
• Is it easier to introduce non-monogamy at the start of a relationship, or to wait until later?
• What are some of the biggest benefits of being non-monogamous? What are some of the biggest challenges?
• How do relationship structures and agreements change over time in polyamory?

Make sure to check out Leanne’s website, and connect with her on Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok to learn more.

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