Lights On with Carl Lentz

Carl & Laura Answer Your Toughest Questions: Abuse, Value, & More

Mar 26, 2025
Dive into a heartfelt discussion on the challenges of aging and parenting philosophies, including a lively debate on spanking. Hear about the intricacies of rebuilding a marriage and balancing family commitments with church activities. The speakers share personal anecdotes, including a hilarious basketball moment, all while addressing the emotional complexities of relationships and the journey of personal growth. Tune in for insights on self-worth, empowerment, and the importance of communication in overcoming life's challenges.
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ANECDOTE

Proud Trash-Talking Moment

  • Carl shares a proud moment playing basketball with his son Roman who confidently trash-talked an opponent.
  • This illustrates how confidence and mental toughness can be taught through fun interactions like sports.
ADVICE

Teach Kids Inside Voice Early

  • Parents should teach kids self-awareness for public behavior using concepts like "inside voice" starting even at a young age.
  • Managing behaviors at home prevents disruptive actions in public and fosters respect for others' space.
ADVICE

Balanced View on Spanking

  • Use controlled, infrequent spanking only if it aligns with your parenting goals; avoid it as the default discipline method.
  • Consider what type of child and household climate you want before choosing spanking as a disciplinary tactic.
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