TED Talks Daily The lies our culture tells us about what matters -- and a better way to live | David Brooks
Jun 5, 2019
David Brooks, an insightful op-ed columnist and author, discusses the cultural crisis of isolation plaguing society today. He reveals the importance of prioritizing deeper connections over materialism for a more fulfilling life. Brooks shares transformative experiences from his travels and introduces the concept of 'weavers'—people who foster community ties. He contrasts the myths of individual success with the urgent need for meaningful relationships, arguing for a cultural shift from fleeting happiness to enduring joy through authentic connections.
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Brooks's Isolation
- David Brooks shares a personal story of isolation after his divorce and children leaving home.
- He describes his loneliness as a burning fear and likened it to drunkenness, highlighting his disconnection.
Societal Lies
- Brooks challenges societal lies: career success equates to fulfillment, self-made happiness, and the meritocracy's conditional love.
- He argues these beliefs contribute to disconnection and a flawed sense of worth.
Crisis of Disconnection
- Brooks connects his personal experience to a larger societal crisis of disconnection and isolation.
- He cites rising loneliness, declining neighborly trust, and increasing mental health issues as evidence.