

114 | Angela Chen on Asexuality in a Sex-Preoccupied World
Sep 14, 2020
Angela Chen, a science journalist and author of "Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex," dives into the often misunderstood world of asexuality. She discusses the complexity of the asexual spectrum and the distinction between sexual desire and emotional intimacy. The conversation highlights societal pressures on sexual norms, the importance of accurate media representation, and the unique experiences of asexual individuals in relationships. Chen encourages a rethinking of traditional intimacy and advocates for greater awareness and acceptance.
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Asexuality Definition
- The term "asexual" can be misleading, implying a lack of sex rather than a lack of sexual attraction.
- This can cause confusion as asexuality encompasses a wide range of experiences, including those who engage in and even enjoy sex.
Desire vs. Attraction
- Asexuality centers around the distinction between sexual desire and sexual attraction.
- Some asexuals engage in sex for emotional or social reasons, even without experiencing sexual attraction.
Targeted Attraction
- Asexual individuals do not experience attraction towards specific people, unlike allosexuals.
- An asexual person with a libido experiences it as a physical need without a desire for a partner, similar to an itch.