
The Next Big Idea Daily You're a Hypocrite, But That's OK
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Dec 10, 2025 Join behavioral scientist Michael Hallsworth, author of *The Hypocrisy Trap*, as he explores how owning up to our contradictions can enhance relationships and rebuild trust. He explains that hypocrisy often ties to status and can connect us rather than divide us. Writer Chuck Thompson, author of *The Status Revolution*, discusses how status is now more inclusive and biologically driven, supported by neuroscience. He argues that seeking status doesn’t have to be a zero-sum game, inviting a more equitable and engaging approach to our social dynamics.
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Hypocrisy As A Status Signal
- Hypocrisy often triggers anger because it's a false status signal rather than just a moral failing.
- Michael Hallsworth explains hypocrites gain status benefits without paying the real costs of consistency.
The Virtuous Hypocrite Paradox
- Noel Biderman, founder of Ashley Madison, was judged more hypocritical yet more praiseworthy when revealed faithful.
- Hallsworth uses this study to show hypocrisy can sometimes increase admiration when the act itself is valued.
Relatable Imperfection Improves Influence
- Imperfect advisers can be more relatable and effective than perfect exemplars.
- Hallsworth notes doctors who share struggles may avoid alienating patients by seeming human.



