Join musicians and co-hosts of Dadville, Dave Barnes and John McLaughlin, as they redefine modern fatherhood. They candidly share personal anecdotes that highlight the evolving role of dads in family dynamics. The conversation dives into the power of words in parenting, emphasizing how positive messaging fosters children's self-esteem. Additionally, they tackle the delicate task of nurturing daughters' self-worth and the need for deep connections over mere problem-solving. It's a refreshing look at what it truly means to show up as a father.
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Cultural Narratives Limit Dads
Cultural narratives paint dads as aloof, bumbling figures who don't fully engage.
This causes many dads to do the bare minimum, as it's socially rewarded and expected.
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The Low Bar for Dad Praise
John McLaughlin was once called a "great dad" just for pushing a stroller on the street.
This low bar for dads shows societal expectations are minimal for fatherly involvement.
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Lead Through Servant-Hearted Presence
Be a plugged-in, present, servant-hearted dad who leads with sacrifice.
This dramatically improves family dynamics and fosters growth and love.
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The Shack tells the story of Mackenzie Allen Phillips, a father of five, whose youngest daughter, Missy, is kidnapped and murdered during a family outing. Years later, Mack receives a mysterious note from 'Papa' (God) inviting him to the shack where Missy's body was found. There, Mack encounters three figures representing the Trinity: Papa (God the Father), Jesus, and Sarayu (the Holy Spirit). Through conversations with them, Mack gains a new understanding of God's love, forgiveness, and the reasons behind suffering and evil. The book explores themes of love, relationships, and the transformative power of redemption through forgiveness[1][3][4].
Dads often get a bad rap. In sitcoms, commercials, and even day-to-day culture, they’re typically cast as bumbling sidekicks or lovable oafs who mean well but don’t quite get it right. When that narrative takes root, it can be easy for fathers to shrug and settle for doing the bare minimum (especially when they get praise for just pushing a stroller down the street). But kids need more. And deep down, every dad knows he was made for more. So what does it look like to embrace fatherhood with purpose, presence, and even a little swagger?
In this special Father’s Day episode, Don and Kyle sit down with Dave Barnes and John McLaughlin, hosts of the hit podcast Dadville. Together, they explore the most important messages a father can send his kids. They break down why dad-messaging matters, what it looks like in the real world, and how even small changes in tone or presence can echo for generations. If you’re a dad, or want to be one, listen in for a refreshing take on what it really means to show up for your family.
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