

#23: Dadville—The New Rules of Being a Great Dad
114 snips Jun 9, 2025
Join musicians and co-hosts of Dadville, Dave Barnes and John McLaughlin, as they redefine modern fatherhood. They candidly share personal anecdotes that highlight the evolving role of dads in family dynamics. The conversation dives into the power of words in parenting, emphasizing how positive messaging fosters children's self-esteem. Additionally, they tackle the delicate task of nurturing daughters' self-worth and the need for deep connections over mere problem-solving. It's a refreshing look at what it truly means to show up as a father.
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Cultural Narratives Limit Dads
- Cultural narratives paint dads as aloof, bumbling figures who don't fully engage.
- This causes many dads to do the bare minimum, as it's socially rewarded and expected.
The Low Bar for Dad Praise
- John McLaughlin was once called a "great dad" just for pushing a stroller on the street.
- This low bar for dads shows societal expectations are minimal for fatherly involvement.
Lead Through Servant-Hearted Presence
- Be a plugged-in, present, servant-hearted dad who leads with sacrifice.
- This dramatically improves family dynamics and fosters growth and love.