Molly Jong-Fast, a writer and political analyst known for her sharp insights as the host of Fast Politics and a Vanity Fair correspondent, shares her complex journey. She discusses her candid memoir about her relationship with her iconic mother, Erica Jong, and the challenges of writing through family struggles and dementia. Touching on themes of resilience, parental guilt, and the intricate dynamics of loss, she reflects on the role of modern media in political commentary while offering hope for America’s future amidst adversity.
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Challenging 2023 Family Year
In 2023, Molly Jong Fast faced multiple family health crises including her husband's pancreatic surgery, her mother's dementia progression, and deaths in the family.
These events created a chaotic year marked by constant hospital visits and difficult caregiving decisions.
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Dementia’s Dual Reality
Dementia makes a loved one both present and absent simultaneously, creating complex emotional realities.
Molly realized her mother was an echo of herself but the real relationship they wished for never fully existed.
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Mother’s Limited Time Revealed
Molly's dad revealed to her that her mother struggled to spend even one hour daily with her as a child.
This admission gave her relief, understanding her mother's limits as a parent.
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Published in 1973, 'Fear of Flying' is a novel that follows Isadora Wing, a Jewish journalist and erotic poet, as she navigates her marriage, sexual desires, and professional ambitions. The story begins with Isadora traveling to Vienna with her husband to attend a psychoanalytic congress, where she meets a Laingian analyst named Adrian Goodlove and embarks on a hedonistic journey across Europe. This journey is not just about her sexual adventures but also a deep exploration of her own identity, the systemic oppression of women, and her quest for autonomy and self-acceptance. The novel is known for its candid and provocative portrayal of women's desires and its impact on the feminist movement of the time.
Molly Jong-Fast is best known as a writer and political commentator. But before she became the host of Fast Politics with Molly Jong-Fast, a regular on MSNBC, and a novelist and memoirist, she was the daughter of Erica Jong.
Jong catapulted to literary stardom with her 1973 novel Fear of Flying. The bold — and, at the time — shocking story of a married woman looking for casual sex made her a literary icon of second-wave feminism. And although Jong-Fast was an only child, she grew up sharing her life with the fictional alter-egos Jong created and longing for a deeper connection with her alcoholic and mostly-absent mother.
But now, Jong-Fast has turned the tables. She’s written an unsparing memoir about her relationship with her mother and Jong’s struggle with dementia titled, How to Lose Your Mother.
Kara talks to Molly about difficult mothers, the perils of writing a memoir, her pivot to journalism, and what gives her hope for America.
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