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D/s No One Else Will Notice | Making D/s Work in the Real World

Apr 25, 2025
Discover how to keep your D/s dynamics discreet in everyday life, navigating the challenges of public perception. The hosts share personal stories and practical tips for integrating power exchange into daily activities, even at family gatherings. With humor, they reflect on raising respectful kids while demonstrating their own dynamics. From subtle routines that deepen intimacy to hilarious tales of lawn care mishaps and car troubles, this discussion blends relatable moments with insightful exploration of real-world D/s relationships.
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ADVICE

Mastering Subtle Power Exchange

  • Develop subtle, unclockable power exchange practices that look like ordinary kindness to outsiders.
  • Use coded language or texts to ask permission or direct actions without revealing kink specifics.
ANECDOTE

Kids Mimic Power Exchange Gestures

  • John Brownstone has consistently opened car doors for Kayla, a behavior the kids have noticed and imitated.
  • The kids comply with this custom, despite typical teenage eye-rolling.
ADVICE

Use Code Words for Discreet Requests

  • Use negotiated code words or innocuous questions to seek permission in public without drawing attention.
  • Agree ahead on meanings so communication stays discreet and private.
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