10% Happier with Dan Harris Myths of Love, Sex, Dating, and Relationships | Myisha Battle
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Feb 6, 2023 
Myisha Battle, a certified sex and dating coach and author of "This Is Supposed to Be Fun," shares her insights on love and relationships. She dives into five ways to enhance intimacy in partnerships while debunking the myth of finding 'the one.' Myisha discusses the often-confused dynamics of sex and intimacy, advocating for open communication and understanding between partners. She also addresses the orgasm gap and offers mindfulness tips for navigating modern dating, emphasizing genuine connections over societal pressures.
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You Complete Me Model Problems
- The "you complete me" model assumes individuals are incomplete without romantic partners, placing undue pressure on finding "the one".
- This model devalues other relationships and overburdens romantic partners by making them solely responsible for fulfilling all needs.
Evolution of Marriage
- Societal structures that once supported marriage have changed, leading to increased expectations on partners.
- Modern relationships demand partners fulfill a wider range of needs, increasing pressure and potential strain.
Bromance and Emotional Dependency
- Societal norms discourage men from expressing romantic, non-sexual feelings towards other men, limiting their connections.
- This often leads to women being overburdened in relationships as the primary source of emotional support for their male partners.
