
Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch Encore: Ep. 7 - Allison’s Lonely Students
Nov 25, 2025
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Small Daily Rituals Carry Big Meaning
- People often miss the small, daily interactions at work that give life meaning and purpose.
- Minimizing these losses prevents people from acknowledging real grief and distress.
Teacher's Daily Presence Revealed Hidden Needs
- Allison taught two grade-nine classes and spent about three hours with each class daily, letting her observe behavior and overhear students.
- In remote office hours students showed personal things and said the time made them feel less lonely.
Small Personal Invitations Signal Trust
- Students often accept personal invitations like showing their room or pet as signals of deep trust.
- Those small gestures reveal strong bonds even when teachers feel disconnected.
