On Purpose with Jay Shetty 6 Mistakes We Make in Relationships & 4 Ways to Make Them Right
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Jul 8, 2022 Explore the subtle mistakes that can derail relationships, like being overly critical or turning jokes into hurtful remarks. Discover how defensiveness can damage communication and lead to emotional disconnect. Learn the importance of constructive criticism versus complaints and how creative resolutions can strengthen bonds. Jay emphasizes accountability and open dialogue as keys to lasting connections, inviting listeners to reflect on their actions to foster healthier, more loving relationships.
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Avoid Criticism
- Stop criticizing your partner and start complaining constructively.
- Focus on the issue, not their character, to avoid chipping away at the relationship.
Self-Reflection in Criticism
- We often criticize others for traits we dislike in ourselves.
- Recognize that people are separate from their traits, both for yourself and your partner.
Constructive Complaining
- Instead of criticizing, get creative in finding solutions.
- Schedule opportunities, divide responsibilities, and clarify expectations to minimize complaints.