Jada Pinkett Smith (EXCLUSIVE): “I just wanted to stay ALIVE until 4pm!”, “Me & Will Are NOT Together”, “Tupac Kissed Me TWICE!”
Oct 16, 2023
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Hollywood star Jada Pinkett Smith joins Steven Bartlett to discuss her troubled upbringing, drug dealing as a teenager, meeting Tupac at 14, her deep friendship with him, and her relationship with Will Smith. She shares her experiences with domestic violence, mental breakdown, and contemplating suicide. The conversation also explores the importance of conflict resolution in relationships and the significance of surrender and self-reflection in personal growth.
Jada Pinkett Smith shares her journey of overcoming a difficult upbringing and finding self-worth through therapy and self-reflection.
Pinkett Smith reflects on the profound impact and lasting void left by her dear friend Tupac Shakur's tragic incarceration and death.
The podcast emphasizes the significance of surrendering to a higher power and focusing on inner healing for true happiness and fulfillment.
Deep dives
Jada Pinkett Smith's turbulent past: drug addiction, dealing, and self-hatred
Jada Pinkett Smith opens up about her difficult upbringing with drug addicted parents, her own involvement in drug dealing, and the dark time when she contemplated suicide. She shares her experiences of self-hatred, fearlessness, and the wake-up call that came when she faced guns pointed at her. Pinkett Smith discusses the importance of feeling like a priority and the impact her parents' addiction had on her sense of worthiness. She also reflects on the profound connections she had with Tupac Shakur and Will Smith, as well as the heartbreak of losing them both.
The power of authenticity and vulnerability in Tupac Shakur
Pinkett Smith describes her deep bond with Tupac Shakur, emphasizing his ability to connect on an emotional and intellectual level. She admires his authenticity, rawness, and courage to address various subject matters, speaking to the hearts of many through his music. In her book, Pinkett Smith reflects on Tupac's significant impact and how his tragic incarceration and eventual death left a lasting void in her life.
Facing mental health challenges and navigating personal earthquakes
Pinkett Smith shares her struggle with mental health, including a breakdown she experienced while driving, leading to a realization that she needed help. She discusses the stigma surrounding mental health at the time and highlights the importance of addressing one's mental well-being. Pinkett Smith's journey towards healing and self-discovery is marked by therapy, medication, and self-reflection, as she navigates her own personal earthquakes and learns to prioritize her own mental and emotional well-being.
Dealing with loss and grief in the face of tragedy
Pinkett Smith opens up about the profound loss she experienced, losing her dear friend Maxine and then the tragic death of Tupac Shakur. Alongside her own complicated grief, she grapples with the questions of what could have been done differently and the weight of hindsight. Pinkett Smith's journey through grief and loss highlights the complexity of mourning and the impact it has on personal growth and perspective.
The Importance of Surrender and Healing
The podcast episode explores the importance of surrendering and finding healing in times of darkness and discontent. The host discusses her personal journey of feeling spiritually bankrupt and being in a chronic state of discontent, despite external success. She talks about contemplating suicide and losing herself in a cycle of self-hatred. However, through divine intervention and the use of Ayahuasca, she was able to see her deep-seated self-hatred and began the process of healing. The episode emphasizes the significance of surrendering to a higher power and the need to let go of the belief that external achievements or validation can bring true happiness and fulfillment. By surrendering and focusing on inner healing, she found the path to truly loving herself and finding genuine happiness.
The Complexity of Relationships and Conflict Resolution
Another key theme explored in the podcast episode is the complex dynamics of relationships and conflict resolution. The host shares her experiences in her marriage and the different visions of happiness that she and her partner had. They faced challenges in understanding each other's love languages and needs. The episode delves into their journey of discovering the balance between individual aspirations and shared connection. It highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and embracing the differences in love languages. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the host emphasizes the need for both partners in a relationship to be individually fulfilled while finding harmony and balance together.
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Drug dealer, Hollywood star, wife, mother, icon. Jada Pinkett Smith is dismantling her defences and revealing all.
In this new episode Steven sits down with global superstar, Jada Pinkett Smith.
Jada Pinkett Smith is an American actor who has appeared in films such as, ‘The Nutty Professor’, ‘Magic Mike XXL’ and ‘The Matrix Resurrections’. She is the co-host of the talk show ‘Red Table Talk’, and was named as one of Time magazines’ 100 Most Influential people in 2021.
In this conversation Jada and Steven discuss topics, such as:
How drugs were here parents priority
Taking to the streets to find her identity and self-worth
Being told by her father that he couldn’t be her father
Using acting and art as an outlet and a way to escape
Acting as a way to escape
The domestic violence she experienced
Wanting to be a hustler and big time drug dealer
Drug dealing as a teenager
Trying to created herm own safety, security and protection
Growing up in a ‘war zone’ and getting used to violence and vigilance
Getting a gun pointed to her head at 17 years old
Being ‘out of her mind’ and fearless
Coming to Hollywood in survival mode
Being misunderstood all her life
Never feeling as if you have ‘arrived’ and wanting to be loved
Meeting Tupac at 14 years old
Kissing Tupac and their relationship
The greatness of Tupac
Meeting Will Smith for the first time
How Will Smith taught her never judge a book by its cover
Having a mental breakdown and wanting to die
Buying a farmhouse to escape Hollywood to build a quiet life
Seeing Tupac in Rikers Island prison
The last time she ever saw Tupac
Still working out her relationship with grief
Feeling spiritually bankrupt at the peak of her success
Abandoning herself to Will Smith’s dreams
The flaws of the romantic dream
Being told by Will to go make herself happy
Detoxing her need for outside validation and perfection
Waking up everyday and just trying to make it to 4pm