Laura Marris, an accomplished essayist and poet, unveils the concept of ecological loneliness as both a cause and reflection of isolation in society. She highlights how our disconnection from nature not only impacts personal relationships but also the environment. The conversation reframes loneliness as a pathway to hope, illuminating its potential for introspection and societal insight. Marris encourages listeners to reconnect with their surroundings, suggesting that understanding our isolation may spark meaningful transformation.
Ecological loneliness highlights the reciprocal isolation caused by disconnection from both human and non-human communities, revealing systemic social issues.
Engaging with loneliness can uncover personal and community needs, transforming neglected spaces into opportunities for ecological renewal and healing.
Deep dives
Understanding Ecological Loneliness
Ecological loneliness refers to the disconnection individuals experience from both human and non-human communities due to the way environments are designed. This sense of solitude arises from a lack of relationships with the living world, creating a reciprocating effect where diminishing other species also contributes to personal isolation. As loneliness has been popularized in self-help culture, its true complexity often remains obscured, particularly regarding how it varies across genders and contexts. Recognizing ecological loneliness encourages a deeper understanding of the social structures that perpetuate isolation and the importance of reconnecting with our surroundings.
The Role of Ground Truthing
The concept of ground truthing serves as a method to validate observations in our local environments, emphasizing the value of firsthand experiences over remote assessments. This approach helps uncover what has been lost or overlooked in familiar places, highlighting the stories of species, such as horseshoe crabs, that have diminished due to systemic exploitation. By focusing on these narratives, individuals can create a richer ecological memory and data archive that reflects changes in their local ecosystems. This process allows for a greater appreciation of community science efforts and the collective noticing of environmental shifts.
Transforming Loneliness into Action
Loneliness can serve as a catalyst for understanding the shortcomings of society's emphasis on growth and capital, highlighting profound feelings of isolation. By engaging with loneliness rather than dismissing it, individuals may use it as a roadmap to identify what is missing in their lives and communities. For instance, abandoned industrial sites, often viewed negatively, can may actually represent opportunities for ecological renewal and community healing. This reframing underscores the potential for regeneration and biodiversity when humans step back, allowing other species and ecosystems to thrive without control.
Loneliness is what results when a person is cut off from the living world. Ecological loneliness, in particular, is reciprocal - what we mete out always comes back to trouble us. However, as Laura Marris demonstrates, loneliness can entail the shadow work for understanding how a society based on capital and on growth, can create profound isolation. She suggests that this work can look like ground truthing a place that has changed over time, that was once familiar to us, either as individuals or as collectives, but now appears alien.
Laura Marris is an essayist, poet, and translator. Her writing has appeared or is forthcoming in The Believer, Harper’s, The New York Times, The Paris Review Daily, The Yale Review, Words Without Borders and elsewhere. She has received fellowships from MacDowell, a Katharine Bakeless Fellowship from the Bread Loaf Writer’s Conference, and a grant from the Robert B. Silvers Foundation. Her first solo-authored book, The Age of Loneliness, was published by Graywolf in August, 2024. She lives in Buffalo.
Image: “The Monk by the Sea” by Caspar David Friedrich, now housed at the Alte Nationalgalerie in Berlin. The image is in the public domain.