Slate Daily Feed Dear Prudence | I Need My Best Friend to Give Me Some Space. Help!
Jun 6, 2025
Lonnae O'Neal, a senior writer for ESPN/Andscape and author of "Bibb Country," joins for a lively discussion on navigating personal dilemmas. They tackle everything from how to address a friend's husband's awkward comments to the emotional fallout of attending a high school reunion. Boundaries in friendships are a hot topic, especially when one friend needs space. The episode also delves into sensitive family dynamics, including a listener's concerns about a father’s new friend during a mother's illness. Insightful and compassionate advice abounds!
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Beware Shadow Contracts
- Shadow contracts are unspoken expectations in relationships that create resentment if unmet.
- Explicit communication avoids misunderstandings and hidden disappointments.
Handle Husband's Advance Carefully
- When your friend's husband makes inappropriate remarks, respond with silence to avoid escalation.
- Consider carefully whether to disclose to your friend, weighing complexities and risks.
Set Boundaries with Friend's Spouse
- Avoid being alone with an inappropriate person to protect yourself.
- Visit your friend only when the problematic spouse is away to maintain healthy boundaries.
