Women of Impact How to Be Irresistible: The 9 Rules to Seduce & Captivate Anyone - Anywhere, Anytime | Shan Boodram PT 1
In this empowering first half of our two-part episode, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Shan Boodram—a certified intimacy expert, sexologist, author, and host—to unpack the art and science of seduction for women. Shan isn’t your average sexologist; she's here to debunk myths around seduction and reveal why true connection goes far deeper than any superficial tricks. Drawing inspiration from Robert Greene’s The Art of Seduction and her own clinical research, Shan shares the nine proven ways women can be highly seductive—and why each one works.
As Lisa and Shan dive in, they reveal everything from the power of first impressions and the psychology behind the “siren,” to the overlooked potency of genuine interest and playing to your personal strengths. They also shine a light on the darker side of seduction—manipulation—and share actionable tips on building authentic confidence, owning your sexuality, and breaking free from societal norms. Whether you’re looking to harness your inner charm or simply show up more powerfully in your relationships, this episode is your blueprint.
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00:00 Introduction: Meet Shan Boodram, Intimacy Expert & Sexologist
01:30 First Impressions: Warmth + Competence Formula
12:45 Addiction, Inconsistent Reward, and the Sunk-Cost Fallacy
21:55 How Your Inner Child Energy Attracts Others
30:04 The Croquette — Mystery, Teasing, and Negging
32:29 Living Apart Together: Creating Mystery in Relationships
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