

Office Hours Special: Algebra of Masculinity Part 1
37 snips Oct 11, 2023
Christine Emba, a Washington Post columnist and author of Rethinking Sex, dives into the complexities of masculinity today. She discusses how traditional masculine traits are shifting and their effect on men's identities and relationships. The conversation tackles the evolving dating dynamics and the importance of empathy and communication between genders. Emba also critiques the overwhelming influence of pornography on young men and reflects on the challenges and trade-offs of monogamy in contemporary relationships.
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Men in Crisis
- Young men are struggling with declining college graduation rates and labor market participation.
- Women report a felt sense that men are not meeting their expectations as partners.
Dating Dynamics and the High Heels Effect
- Women may express a desire for feminist partners but often prefer traditional masculine initiation in dating.
- The "high heels effect" describes women's preference for partners at or above their level, creating dating imbalances.
Women's Role in the Crisis
- Women can help by being honest about their desires and engaging in real-life interactions.
- Reduce negativity towards men to foster healthier relationships.