anything goes with emma chamberlain the seduction of "hard to get"
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Feb 11, 2024 In this podcast, the speaker explores the belief that people who are hard to get are better. They discuss the harmful effects of valuing things that are hard to acquire, the satisfaction of validation, the influence of low self-esteem, and the insecurities arising from not fitting societal stereotypes. They emphasize the importance of dating someone who likes you as much as you like them, defining personal values, and making responsible decisions.
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Subconscious Beliefs' Power
- Emma Chamberlain realized subconscious beliefs are powerful, impacting daily life more than conscious ones.
- Subconscious beliefs influence behaviors and choices without awareness, like a subtle possession.
Friend Group Dynamics
- Emma Chamberlain details how her subconscious belief affected her view of friend groups.
- She thought harder-to-enter groups signified superiority, motivating her to improve.
Challenge and Value
- Emma Chamberlain reflects on her attraction to "hard-to-get" men, associating difficulty with value.
- This applied to various areas, from relationships to colleges, assuming difficulty equates to quality.