Is This the One? Heartfelt Insights on Love, Dating, and Marriage.

Sep 4, 2024

Grace Ann Chua, a certified dating coach and founder of HTHT.co, explores the multifaceted world of love and relationships. She emphasizes that dating is a journey of self-discovery, revealing insights about identifying personal values and non-negotiables. Alongside Elvin and Esther Foong, she discusses the importance of communication, navigating red flags, and the challenges of differing values. The trio shares valuable tips for sustaining joy in relationships and the significance of resilience in marriage.

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ANECDOTE

A Mother's Wise Endorsement

Esther saw Elvin's character shine during a challenging community service trip in Timor-Leste.
Her mother's positive endorsement reinforced Esther's decision to commit to Elvin.

INSIGHT

Key Signs of Compatibility

Enjoyment and compatibility in spending time together matters in choosing a life partner.
Loving community and parental acceptance can be important indicators of relationship health.

INSIGHT

Set and Respect Non-Negotiables

Clearly define non-negotiable values and boundaries before committing.
Recognize red flags early and be prepared to leave unhealthy relationships.

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“Dating it's also a journey of self-discovery not just other-discovery… even if it doesn't work out, you come out with a better awareness of who you are as a person.” -Elvin Foong

Dating isn't just about finding the right partner—it's also a journey of self-awareness! The journey towards marriage is one which requires wisdom and perspective from older ones, courage to confront differences, and understanding another’s values and habits.

Tune in to this episode to hear from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, as they share their insights on all things dating, marriage and relationships!

Know of couples who are getting married soon? Do invite them to check out our upcoming Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop in November 2024.

Husband-and-wife trainers Nam Seng & Sok Mian will help couples learn to:

Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
Plan and manage family finances well
Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop

Couples can look forward to two weekday online sessions

and one onsite session on a Saturday.

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