The Harsh Truth About Building the Perfect Relationship | Jillian Turecki

Oct 18, 2023

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If relationships rarely end due to a lack of love, what can you do to build a relationship that lasts a lifetime?

This episode's guest is Jillian Turecki, a certified relationship coach, teacher, and writer who, for 20 years, has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.

In this episode, Jillian and I discuss:

Why many marriages end in divorce
The red flags you should never ignore in a relationship
Tips on how to better communicate with your partner
How to overcome the emotional trauma of a broken relationship
Understand that you deserve a healthy, loving relationship
The tools you need to build a thriving relationship

[00:00] Introduction
[00:43] Why are Relationships So Hard?
[03:14] Reasons Why Divorce Rates are on an Upward Trajectory
[05:50] The Power of Commitment in a Relationship
[07:09] Why Do People Break Up?
[13:34] Loneliness in a Relationship
[14:38] Biggest Drivers of Relationship Failure
[17:29] Why It's So Hard to Move on After a Breakup
[22:51] Do People Really Change?
[24:55] Attachment Styles in Adult Relationships
[28:50] What are Relationship Red Flags?
[31:40] Why Character Should Be Your Top Priority in a Relationship
[34:10] The Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in a Relationship
[38:51] Thoughts on the Love at First Sight Debate
[40:53] Why People End Relationships
[42:17] Is There Such a Thing as "The One"?
[44:50] Don't Believe Everything You See on Social Media
[45:54] When to Call it Quits in a Relationship
[50:23] How to Position Yourself For a Succesful, Long-Term Relationship
[54:45] Parting Thoughts

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