Chasing Music Dreams as a Filipino-American vs Family Expectations Which Way is Better?

Josh Solomon, a session musician and member of the band Young Lovers, shares his journey into music and the challenges he faced as a member of a first-generation Filipino American family. Despite family pressure to pursue a more traditional career, Josh found support and validation within the music community. Links:

• Josh's Band: https://www.instagram.com/youngloversla/
• Josh's IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecitypopbassist/?hl=en
• Yellow Chair Upcoming Events: https://yellowchaircollective.com/ycc-events/

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage
• 03:01 Family Pressure and Finding Support
• 06:04 Discovering a Passion for Music
• 09:29 Dealing with Family Expectations
• 15:29 First Big Break: Opening for The Fall of Troy
• 23:00 Continuing to Pursue Music Despite Challenges
• 28:25 Navigating the Music Industry
• 31:32 Regret and Rediscovery
• 33:49 The Power of Expression in Music
• 36:25 Finding Your Voice
• 43:45 The Joy of Music
• 47:25 Maintaining a Childlike Appreciation
• 52:38 Overcoming Discouragement
• 55:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

Takeaways

• Family pressure can be a significant challenge for first-generation musicians, but finding support within the music community can help navigate these challenges.
• Opportunities and validation, such as a big break or positive audience reactions, can provide affirmation and motivation to continue pursuing music.
• Physical challenges, like carpal tunnel syndrome, can be discouraging, but musicians often find ways to adapt and continue playing.
• The music industry can be tough and competitive, requiring musicians to pivot and find their own paths within it.
• Pivoting away from your passion doesn't mean giving up on it entirely.
• There may be other ways to stay connected to it and explore different aspects of it.
• Maintaining a childlike appreciation for music and finding joy in the process is crucial to staying motivated and inspired.
• Comparing yourself to others can be discouraging.
• Focus on your own journey and the progress you're making.
• The way you play now is just as important and beautiful as where you want to be in the future.
• Embrace the present moment and celebrate your growth.
• Don't be afraid to take breaks and let your passion breathe. Sometimes stepping back can lead to new perspectives and renewed inspiration.