This week we’re joined by two twos, Alex Giroux and Fay Willow, to unpack our negative bias against 2s. We attempt to atone for our sins. Forgive us for we shall sin again.

— (10:06) The collective shadow that type 2 represents culturally
— (19:40) Emeka and John reacting to their mothers being 2s
— (29:58) How Alex experiences her own neediness as a social blind 2
— (38:00) 2s feeling like they have to offer something to justify their existence as rejection types
— (43:40) How our 2s interpret the notion that their love is conditional and is giving to get
— (53:27) The friction between 2s giving love and kindness vs their authentic preferences in the moment
— (1:08:59) Fay and David’s intense conversation about allowing him to give hold space for her without her giving anything first
— (1:19:53) 2s are formidable and not fragile or weak

It’s episode 69, give and you shall receive. Anonymously call the Loveline with with your type related kinks and sexual fantasies. The number is (323) 696-0647. Or you can email a voice note to bhepodcast@gmail.com.

BHE 069 - ‘TERRIBLE’ TWOS - Alex & Fay