Topics discussed include embracing self-approval, prioritizing self-approval over external validation in Stoic philosophy, embracing self-improvement and personal choices, and reframing beauty with a focus on inner qualities over appearance.
Identifying traits for self-approval and distinguishing personal from external influences is vital for overcoming low self-esteem.
The Secret Society of Stoics offers a platform for deepening Stoic principles through activities like book clubs and journaling prompts.
Deep dives
Birth of Little Baby Mochi
The host shares his excitement about his upcoming child, referring to the baby as 'Little Baby Mochi.' He expresses anticipation for the birth and the life changes it will bring, emphasizing the profound impact of becoming a parent.
Introduction of Secret Society of Stoics
The host introduces the 'Secret Society of Stoics,' designed for those interested in Stoicism to delve deeper into its principles and values. Features of the society include a monthly book club, calls, and journaling prompts, emphasizing its focus on living out Stoic ideals and self-improvement.
Addressing Low Self-Esteem
The episode delves into the concept of low self-esteem, framing it as a lack of self-approval. Listeners are encouraged to identify traits they disapprove of and those they approve of about themselves, emphasizing the importance of personal perspective and choosing to focus on self-approval over external opinions.
Apparently this episode got uploaded only in part. I'm sorry it took me nearly a month to realize it (been busy with the new baby), but this is the full episode. Thanks for letting me know and for being patient.
In today's episode of "Practical Stoicism," I tackle the deeply personal and often challenging topic of improving self-esteem. At its core, low self-esteem is a lack of self-approval, a revelation that can evoke a powerful emotional response in many of us. As we delve into this subject, I guide you through an introspective journey, starting with the acknowledgment of our self-disapproval and moving towards understanding and eventually overcoming these feelings. By differentiating the aspects of ourselves that we disapprove of for our own reasons versus those influenced by external expectations, we embark on a path to genuine self-acceptance. This episode not only seeks to deepen your understanding of self-esteem from a Stoic perspective but also to provide practical steps towards cultivating a healthier relationship with yourself.