Calm Parenting Podcast 10 Ways to Cultivate A Growth Mindset in Kids Who Make Excuses, Blame Others, Lose Poorly #536
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Nov 16, 2025 Discover practical strategies to help kids overcome excuses and blame by cultivating a growth mindset. Learn about encouraging language that fosters independence and resilience. Explore real-life examples like gardening and cooking, which build confidence and responsibility. Understand the importance of allowing kids to fail and grow from challenges. Hear compelling stories of parental belief transforming children's perspectives. Plus, tips on creating life-skill report cards to track unique strengths beyond academics.
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Confidence Comes From A Reservoir Of Wins
- Many kids who blame others or make excuses lack an internal reservoir of confidence.
- Success often comes from cumulative wins in behavior and academics that children can draw on when challenged.
School Grades Miss Real-Life Skills
- School grades measure narrow academic skills but miss many traits that predict real-life success.
- Traits like decision-making, risk-taking, patience, and communication are undervalued by traditional academics.
Create Nonacademic Success Opportunities
- Give children chances to succeed outside academics by supporting their passions and projects.
- Embrace activities like gardening or hobbies because they build leadership, patience, and real competence.