Transcending Insanity, Part One: Generosity (the Virtue that Produces Peace)

Aug 8, 2025

Explore the transformative power of generosity as a foundational virtue for finding sanity in a chaotic world. Discover three forms of generosity: material giving, sharing wisdom, and providing fearlessness through deep listening. Understand how leading with 'What can I give?' in conversations can shift perspectives and foster connection. Reflect on practical ways to embody generosity daily, allowing it to enhance your relationships and sense of purpose. This enlightening discussion invites you to embrace generosity as a path to deeper living.

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ANECDOTE

Current Times Motivate Practice

Susan Piver describes current times as crazily aggressive, cruel, and intolerant.
She frames these conditions as the context motivating study of the paramitas.

INSIGHT

Paramitas Lead To The Other Shore

The Six Paramitas are a sequential practice that guarantees arrival at 'the other shore' of sanity and decency.
They function together and each needs generosity as the foundational, expansive first step.

ADVICE

Start Practice With Generosity

Pair generosity with the other paramitas to avoid them becoming unskillful or rigid.
Begin practice with generosity to allow discipline, patience, exertion, samadhi, and wisdom to blossom.

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This episode starts off a new series on the Six Paramitas (Transcendent Actions).

Focusing on the first paramita: generosity, I share how this quality—often misunderstood as mere niceness or material giving—is actually the foundation for waking up, finding sanity, and increasing the sanity of this world.

I talk about three forms of generosity:

Ordinary generosity – Giving material things with an open heart
The gift of dharma – Sharing wisdom in a humble, useful way
The gift of fearlessness – Helping others feel stronger and less alone, often through the simple act of listening

Highlights:

Why generosity is the gateway to all other Paramitas
How practicing generosity transforms the way people respond to you
What it really means to lead with offering, rather than seeking
A beautiful, powerful definition of listening: “When you stop thinking your thoughts and start thinking mine.” –Catherine MacCoun
Practical ways to embody generosity in daily life—emails, conversations, arguments, and more

As always, don’t take my word for any of this—reflect on these teachings yourself, and see what arises.

This is a rich and grounding episode for anyone interested in living more deeply, whether or not you identify as Buddhist.

Next week, I’ll share about the second paramita, discipline (Shila), or how to stay intentional without becoming rigid.

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