

348: ‘I wish we had sex more.’ (ft. Violet Lange)
Feb 14, 2025
Violet Lange, an expert in feminine energy and sexuality, offers enlightening insights into the deeper desires behind intimacy in relationships. She discusses how many men feel disconnected and wish for more sexual connection, not just physical intimacy but a sense of their partner’s feminine essence. Lange emphasizes the importance of emotional transparency and playful exploration in rekindling desire. She also highlights societal challenges women face in embracing their desires and the transformative power of community and self-expression.
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Somatic Approach Success
- A man used a somatic approach when his partner felt triggered.
- Asking her to describe the feeling, she broke down, hugged him, and the feeling vanished.
Men's Deeper Yearning
- Men often desire more than just sex from their partners.
- They yearn for their partner's enthusiastic participation and feminine essence.
Mistranslation of Desire
- Men often express their desire for connection through complaints about their partner's busyness or lack of flirtation.
- Women may misinterpret these complaints, leading to conflict.