The Art of Manliness

#66: The Art of Roughhousing with Anthony T. DeBenedet

May 2, 2014
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ANECDOTE

Host's Personal Roughhousing With Son

  • Bret McKay shares roughhousing memories with his son Gus, starting around age one.
  • He describes tossing, body slams on the bed, and baby suplexes as playful bonding rituals.
INSIGHT

Safety Culture Misreads Rough Play Risk

  • Cultural obsession with safety has stigmatized roughhousing despite low injury rates in healthy, guided play.
  • Knowledge and basic safety principles make rough play generally safe and developmentally valuable.
INSIGHT

Simultaneous Brain Activation Boosts Development

  • Roughhousing stimulates multiple brain regions at once, boosting neural connections during ages 1–8.
  • It improves emotional intelligence by teaching kids to read and regulate feelings through a rev-up and wind-down arc.
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