The Jayson Gaddis Podcast The Most Important Question to Ask to Determine if You Are Compatible - Jayson & Ellen - 372
Dec 9, 2021
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Compatibility Is About Shared Relationship Vision
- Compatibility depends on whether partners want the same kind of relationship, not just shared interests or values.
- Define who you are to each other and the role the partnership plays in both your lives.
Purpose Trumps Shared Hobbies
- Some people see partnership as a vehicle for deep growth while others want ease and fun, creating a core mismatch.
- Longevity depends more on aligned relationship purpose than on hobbies or surface similarities.
Unspoken Roles Breed Conflict
- People often assume roles and make unspoken expectations about how they'll behave during challenges, which causes conflict.
- Clarifying roles and priorities prevents mismatches when stress exposes different default responses.