45: From Fboy to securely attached, debunking ‘if he wanted to he would,' ‘ sleeping with them will ruin things’ and more with Eli Vazquez!
Nov 17, 2023
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Eli Vazquez, a transformation coach and relationship expert, joins Sabrina on this episode to debunk dating and relationship myths. They discuss topics like debunking 'if he wanted to he would', when to sleep together, fear of commitment, and breakups not being personal. They emphasize the importance of self-worth, honesty, vulnerability, and open communication in relationships. They also explore the fear of commitment, gender dynamics, and the importance of genuine connection and compassion in relationships.
Men may have different timelines and societal pressures regarding commitment, needing time to feel ready.
Authentic relationships thrive on open and honest communication, allowing for deeper connections and compatibility.
Actions speak louder than words, with consistent immature behavior not reflecting your worth.
Deep dives
Men and commitment
Men can have different timelines and societal pressures regarding commitment. They may feel the need to achieve financial stability before settling down. Men are often not thinking about finding their soulmate or getting swept off their feet. They may meet someone and be interested, but it takes time for them to feel ready for commitment.
Importance of open communication
Authentic relationships require open and honest communication. It is important to step into your truth and express your preferences and needs early on. This allows for a deeper connection and helps to determine compatibility.
Actions speak louder than words
It is important to pay attention to a person's actions rather than just their words. If someone consistently shows immature behavior, such as ghosting or making empty promises, it is not a reflection of your worth. Insecure and toxic men may exploit your insecurities, while mature men will respect and honor you.
The journey to self-discovery
Everyone is on their own journey of personal growth and self-discovery. It is important to address your own issues and insecurities, and work on building self-worth and confidence. By doing so, you attract healthier relationships and find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are.
The Importance of Being Authentic in a Relationship
In the podcast episode, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being authentic in a relationship. They discuss how finding a partner with whom you can truly be yourself is a sign of a strong connection. The speaker shares personal experiences of trying to fit into a mold and pretending to have certain interests to please their partner. They highlight the significance of being honest about your preferences, needs, and differences early on in a relationship to avoid resentment later.
Navigating Social Media Boundaries in a Relationship
The podcast also delves into the topic of social media boundaries in a relationship. The speaker acknowledges that everyone sees social media differently and suggests that couples should have open conversations about their individual boundaries and preferences. They discuss the dilemma of following and liking provocative content on social media and how it can trigger insecurities and jealousy. The speaker advises setting clear expectations and having direct communication with your partner about what is acceptable when it comes to social media interactions.
On this weeks episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, Sabrina is joined by Eli Vazquez to chat about how Eli went from a F-boy to securely attached, debunking myths like 'if he wanted to he would', when to sleep together with someone, fear of commitment, breakups not being personal and SO much more!!
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