The Thais Gibson Podcast 3 Things That Get Every Dismissive Avoidant to Open Up
Dismissive avoidants can seem emotionally shut down—but there is a way in.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship where the other person won’t open up, especially if they’re dismissive avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast is for you. Thais shares the top 3 proven ways to gently support a dismissive avoidant in letting down their emotional walls—without pushing, overgiving, or losing yourself in the process.
✔️ How asking specific—not general—questions creates space for meaningful sharing
✔️ Why emotional safety and non-judgment are essential to helping a DA open up
✔️ The power of validation, empathy, and simply remembering small details
✔️ How to express your needs without sounding critical or shaming
✔️ The role of acceptance and consistency in building long-term trust
✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often test the waters before becoming emotionally vulnerable
If you’ve ever wondered, “What can I do to connect with a dismissive avoidant partner—or know if it’s even worth it?”, this episode will offer clear, actionable tools to deepen emotional intimacy and assess relationship alignment.
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Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.
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