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The Modern Mind

#102 | Dr Robert Glover | No More Mr Nice Guy - Reach Your Full Potential.

May 13, 2024
Dr. Robert Glover discusses 'nice guy syndrome', covert contracts, fear of failure, and the importance of authenticity. Explore childhood influences, the impact on relationships, and the journey to personal growth and success. Learn about improving communication skills, embracing vulnerability, and shedding shame for a fulfilling life.
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  • Nice guys seek external validation, concealing true selves and seeking approval from others.
  • Covert contracts lead to frustration in nice guys, emphasizing the importance of authenticity.

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Exploring the Complexities of Nice Guys

Nice guys, according to Dr. Robert Glover, often conceal their true selves in pursuit of external validation. This behavior stems from a desire to be liked and loved, leading to a cycle of seeking approval by hiding aspects of themselves. The fear of success and failure both play a role in this behavior, with many nice guys struggling with authenticity and inauthenticity.

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