The Psychology of your 20s 134. The psychology behind the "ick"
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Oct 13, 2023 Explore the intriguing psychology of 'the ick,' where sudden aversions in dating can derail attraction. Discover how intuition and past experiences shape our reactions to minor traits in partners. Learn why some people actively create these feelings to protect their emotional well-being. The conversation uncovers the defense mechanisms behind avoidant attachment styles and how they impact our ability to form genuine connections. 'The ick' may feel like a relationship’s end, but it can also offer important insights into our personal histories.
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The Ick: More Than a Trend
- The "ick" isn't just a funny dating term; it has psychological roots.
- It relates to our intuition, emotional availability, rejection sensitivity, and more.
Defining the Ick
- The "ick" is a strong, visceral repulsion, not just doubt.
- It can be triggered by small things and make you want to end a relationship.
Categories of Icks
- Icks are categorized into behavioral, physical, and emotional.
- Examples include baby talk, wearing goggles, or vanity.