Why does the female orgasm still feel like one of life’s biggest mysteries—even in 2025? This week on Velvet’s Edge, Kelly is joined by board-certified sexologist and host of the Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast, Kim Anami. Known for her transformational retreats and global work around intimacy, Kim breaks down the myths, mental blocks, and cultural baggage that keep so many women from experiencing their full pleasure.

From the reasons society still struggles with good sex, to why women orgasm differently solo versus with a partner, to how menopause and aging shift intimacy—Kim shares her wealth of knowledge on reconnecting with your body and reclaiming your right to pleasure. You’ll hear practical tools for women who struggle to orgasm, advice for men who want to be better lovers, and the empowering truth that sex gets to be better at every stage of life.

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Podcast: Orgasimic Enlightenment

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Unpacking the Mystery of the Female Orgasm with Kim Anami (The Velvet)