The Intentional Parents Podcast

Forgiveness in Marriage, When sorry isn’t Enough, and Five ways to Apologize that bring Healing

Apr 17, 2024

Learn about the art of apologizing in marriage and parenting, exploring forgiveness and God's heart. Discover 5 steps to a meaningful apology and recommendations for deepening relationships. Hear personal stories and reflections on seeking forgiveness within family dynamics.

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Quick takeaways

Expressing regret and empathy forms the emotional core of a genuine apology.

Teaching children to apologize early cultivates empathy and understanding in relationships.

Forgiveness and repentance are essential for unity, growth, and resolution in relationships.

Deep dives

Expressing Regret and Empathy in Apology

Apologizing involves expressing regret and empathy, acknowledging the impact of one's actions on others. It's not just saying sorry, but genuinely feeling sorry for the hurt caused. This emotional aspect of an apology sets the tone for genuine remorse and can help in resolving tension and fostering forgiveness.

Introduction

3min

Family Gatherings and Forgiveness in Relationships

9min

Exploring the Journey of Learning to Apologize and Seek Forgiveness

4min

Understanding Apologies and Forgiveness in Relationships

8min

Navigating Apology Languages and Emotional Validation in Relationships

6min

Reflections on Apology and Forgiveness in Relationships

10min

The Value of Genuine Regret and Repentance in Apologies

4min

Teaching Children the Art of Apology

18min

Reflections on Family Values and Introduction to a Film Series for Parental Spiritual Development

3min

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The Art of Seeking Forgiveness in Relationships

12min

We probably all have experienced a poor apology or even given one. On today’s show Phil+Diane and Brook+Elizabeth all sit down to discuss what a good apology looks like. It is so much more than the words you say or don’t say, although they are important. They unpack God’s heart for forgiveness and how it goes hand in hand with apologies. They also go through the 5 steps to apologize from the book, When Sorry Isn’t Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas. Enjoy!

5 steps to an apology:

1) Expressing Regret

2) Accepting responsibility

3) Making restitution

4) Genuinely repenting

5) Request forgiveness

Book recommendations:

When Sorry Isn't Enough by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas

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