On with Kara Swisher Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel: Friendship — My Reliable Gift
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Aug 14, 2023 
In a heartfelt conversation, two best friends, one a driven achiever and the other sharing emotions openly, confront their long-standing bond. They explore the unspoken tensions of two decades, revealing how cultural backgrounds and family histories shape their relationship. Their dialogue digs deep into vulnerabilities, the impact of growing up in a homophobic environment, and the necessity for honest communication. They also highlight the joy found in rituals that strengthen friendship without sacrificing personal growth.
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Reconnection and Family Ties
- The two friends reconnected as adults after a decade apart, having originally met in preschool.
- Their families also knew each other through a restaurant business connection and occasional check-ins.
Shared and Distinct Experiences
- Despite different family histories, they connected over being South Asian families in a predominantly white town.
- One friend envied the other's Catholic upbringing, having faced Islamophobia as a Muslim.
Childhood Perceptions and Adult Relationships
- Esther Perel observes that childhood perceptions of each other and families shape adult relationships.
- The friends revealed unspoken observations and painful experiences.