How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice and Relatable Humor

100. What to do BEFORE You File for Divorce!!

Feb 29, 2024

Topics discussed include the importance of mental preparation before filing for divorce, timing considerations, setting up for success post-divorce, tools for organizing expenses, impact of job loss or career advancement, retirement implications, prenuptial agreements, children's ages, emotional support, and seeking professional advice from a divorce attorney.

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Introduction

00:00 • 4min

Determining the Right Time to File for Divorce and Consulting with an Attorney

04:16 • 5min

Exploring Prenuptial Agreement Terms and Financial Implications in Divorce

08:56 • 2min

Navigating Divorce Decisions with Children's Ages in Mind

11:06 • 7min

Preparing for Divorce: Factors to Consider Before Filing

18:06 • 4min

Navigating Divorce Considerations Near Retirement

21:56 • 14min

Navigating Individual Needs in Divorce Cases

36:01 • 5min

Okay, let's hash out everything you need to do BEFORE you file for divorce, sounds like fun, huh?

Listen, let us start by saying: mental preparation is crucial and there is NO perfect time for divorce, and every case is different!

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This episode helps you get your head straight if you’re thinking about divorce.

You’re going to hear:

*The Importance of timing in divorce decisions

*Consideration of length of marriage for potential alimony or maintenance

*Permanent support after around 20 years of marriage

*Setting up for success in the next chapter of life after divorce

*Tools for Organizing Expenses and Communication During Divorce

*Impact of job loss or significant career advancement on divorce filing and financial implications

*Retirement and its impact on support and financial division in divorces later in life

*Discussion of prenups, children's ages, length of marriage, employment, and retirement for awareness and discussion with an attorney

*Confidential ways to consult a divorce lawyer, such as through advance consultation fees or using a separate credit card

*Emotional Support During the Divorce Process

*Encouragement to seek professional advice from a divorce attorney to address individual concerns

This episode is for you if you are ready to get your head on straight if you are considering or currently navigating the complexities of divorce and seeking expert advice, support, and camaraderie during this challenging time.

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